All those times when you said "no"--you were lazy whenever I made plans to go for supper with whatever ragtag gang I could muster, I was a bit miffed but hey no reason to get upset, right? I was ok with that. Ego fractured, but still ok.
All those times when you said "see lar" whenever I made plans for supper with whatever ragtag gang I could muster and go ahead with it and you didn't turn up, I was a little more miffed but hey, still no reason to get upset, I use that line all the time too when I don't really want to go out for whatever but don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. I was still ok with that.
But when you say go ahead and you'll meet me there, I find a nice dry spot in the pouring rain and order a drink and you cancel on me giving the excuse that you were "lazy", that just shows how little respect you have for me. I mean, what's up with that?
Then you email me saying you're sorry and that you've been "annoying" lately because of *ahem*. So what? Why should that affect our friendship? Haven't I been supportive and on your side all those times when you had that rough patch with *ahem*? So unless you're dating the guy now and actually wanted to spend some alone time with him that night, then I apologise to you instead and take everything I said back. Otherwise grrr! >:(
Yes I forgive you, I don't feel like it but I'd be an ass not to. But this doesn't change anything about going out for a birthday do. I originally only said yes to show face to you even though I don't want to go, and now I really, really don't want to and have absolutely no reason to show face anymore.